I turn 60 on October 19!!! WHAT?!?!?
There is something surreal about waking up one day and realizing you’ve entered your 60s. It’s a milestone that carries both weight and wonder. Sixty — it sounds big, doesn’t it? It’s the age we used to associate with retirement parties, slower days, and “taking it easy”. But for many of us Gen X women, that old narrative doesn’t quite fit anymore.
Turning 60 is a blend of emotions — equal parts excitement for what’s next and a quiet whisper of fear about the unknown. It’s standing at the edge of a brand-new decade, feeling both grounded by wisdom and lifted by possibility.
The Excitement of What’s Next
The truth is, 60 today looks nothing like it did for our parents or grandparents. We’re more active, more connected, and more curious than ever. We’re still dreaming, traveling, learning, creating — and in many cases, starting new chapters entirely.
This season of life brings a certain freedom. The expectations of others start to fade, and we finally get to ask, “What do I really want now?” Whether that means starting a small business, spending more time with family, or simply rediscovering what brings you joy — 60 can be a launchpad for invention.
The Fear That Creeps In
Of course, it’s not all easy. There’s the undeniable awareness that time feels a little more precious now. The mirror may reflect changes we didn’t ask for, and sometimes we wonder where the years have gone. There’s also the shift in family dynamics— children grown, grandchildren living across the country, and a new rhythm of connection to figure out.
Reframing 60: A New Beginning
Turning 60 isn’t an ending; it’s a beautiful middle — a chapter rich with experience, self-awareness, and opportunity. It’s the perfect time to redefine what fulfillment means and to create a life that reflects who you are now, not who you used to be.
So yes, 60 can be both exciting and scary. But it also can be liberating. Because with every passing year, we learn that the best parts of life don’t stop — they just evolve.
Here’s to embracing it all — the changes, the challenges, and the quiet confidence that comes from knowing you’ve already made it through so much and still have so much more ahead.
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