If you’re a grandparent whose grandchildren live across the country (I have twin grandchildren, boy and girl, who are almost 3), you know that distance can tug at the heart in ways that words can’t describe. You miss the little moments — the hugs, the laughter, the chance to watch them grow up in real time. But here’s the truth: love travels beautifully through the miles when we put intention behind connection.
Today’s technology and a little creativity make it easier than ever to stay close, even when you can’t be there in person. Here are some heartfelt, practical ways to nurture that special bond no matter how many miles separate you.
Schedule Regular video calls— and make them fun!
FaceTime, Zoom, or Google meet can turn distance into connection. Don’t just “call” — create experiences. Have a weekly “pajama breakfast”, read bedtime stories, or play games online together. Keep it consistent so your grandkids know it’s your special time.
Send Surprise Mail – Old School Still Works
There’s nothing like getting mail from Grandma or Grandpa! Send postcards, handwritten notes, or small care packages with stickers, coloring books, or a photo of you. (Every time a package comes to the twins home, they think its from Gigi…even if it isn’t from me…LOL)
Visit When You Can
When visits happen, make them memorable. What kids remember most isn’t what you did, but how loved they felt when you were there.
Between visits, remind them that even when you’re apart, they’re always on your mind. That reassurance builds lifelong emotional security.
Being a long-distance grandparent isn’t easy, but it’s absolutely possible to stay close and connected. With a little creativity and consistency, you can build a relationship that grows stronger over time—one FaceTime call, one letter, one shared laugh at a time.
Love doesn’t fade with distance—it simply finds new ways to shine.
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